When Love Is a Hard Choice
There are times when it’s really hard to act in love. Especially when you’re tired, misunderstood, or dealing with people who seem to test your patience on purpose (you know the ones!). In a world where frustration comes easier than kindness, 1 Corinthians 16:14 feels like a radical reminder: “Let all that you do be done in love.”
This verse isn’t just about romance or affection — it’s about the way we respond to everyday life. It calls us to sprinkle love into every task, word, and interaction, even the smallest ones.
The Grocery Store Test
Those times, when you’re in line at the grocery store, and it’s taking forever, and the person in front of you decides to pay with loose change — one coin at a time. You can feel your blood pressure rising.
It’s in moments like these that love in action gets tested. Will you roll your eyes and sigh dramatically, or take a deep breath and choose patience? Sometimes, love looks less like a grand gesture and more like not losing your cool in public.

“Let all that you do be done in love.”
What It Really Means to “Do Everything in Love”
Paul wrote these words to remind the Corinthians — a passionate but often divided community — that everything they did should be rooted in love. Not just the easy things, but all things: conversations, disagreements, service, and even correction.
When your actions come from love, they’re powered by God’s Spirit. Love becomes the motivation, not the reward. It shifts your focus from “What do I get out of this?” to “How can I reflect God’s heart here?”
True love in action is patient, humble, forgiving, and kind — even when no one’s watching.
Living Out Love Daily:
So how do we put this into practice? How do we let love be the engine behind all we do?
- Pause before reacting. Before replying, posting, or judging, take one breath and ask, “Is what I’m about to say or do coming from love?”
- Serve with joy. Fold the laundry, cook the meal, or help a friend not out of obligation, but out of love.
- Show grace to difficult people. Remember, you might be someone else’s “difficult person,” too!
- Pray for a loving heart. Ask God daily to soften the rough edges of your attitude and help you see others through His eyes.
You don’t need a platform, a title, or a perfect life to spread God’s love. Every word you speak, every small act of patience, every quiet kindness — they all have a greater impact than you think.
So today, when you face that slow cashier, the grouchy coworker, or the family drama, remember this: Let all that you do be done in love. Not because it’s easy, but because love is the most powerful thing you can give.
Mister Rogers’ Quiet Kindness
ew people have embodied love in action like Fred Rogers, the beloved host of Mister Rogers’ Neighborhood. Known for his calm voice and gentle presence, he treated every person — from celebrities to camera crew — with sincere kindness.
What many people don’t know is that Fred Rogers was a Christian minister who viewed his TV show as a ministry of love. He once said, “There are three ways to ultimate success: The first way is to be kind. The second way is to be kind. The third way is to be kind.”
He lived 1 Corinthians 16:14 every day, proving that even quiet, consistent kindness can transform lives.
Journaling Prompts
- What everyday situations challenge me the most when it comes to acting with love?
- How does it change my attitude when I remind myself that love is a choice, not just a feeling?
- Who has modeled love in action for me, and what have I learned from them?
- What small act of love can I intentionally do today to reflect God’s heart?

